Wondering how to create a chore chart that actually works? Here are four simple steps you can take to create an effective DIY chore chart for kids.
Are chores around your house well, a chore?
It can often be a huge challenge to get kids motivated to do their chores—and nearly impossible to get them enthusiastic about their household duties. But the truth is that as parents, it is an essential part of our job to teach kids how to help out around the house and to learn how to become productive members of society. Not only does it make our family life run smoother, it is essential to their own development and self-esteem. As it turns out, kids WANT to help and derive great satisfaction from seeing a task through.
We’ve already found that teaching kids about chores, money, and work is definitely a lifelong process. Even so, here are four steps you can take right now to get started on the right track:
One way to get started is to be sure the chores on your chart are easily understood by your kids and that each chore is tailored to their age level and your household expectations. Children as young as two can carry out simple chores like collecting the bathroom garbage cans or helping to pick up toys. A teenager might be a much more involved helper, perhaps doing yard work, laundry, and many additional household tasks to prepare for life on their own.
As you assess what chores need to be done, remember that this is a teaching tool. Younger children may not know how to clean a spotless bathroom mirror or how to make their bed all on their own. They also may not understand household standards. A teenager might not fully understand why they have to separate out reds and blacks from the whites. (One pink t-shirt though, and they might start to come around.) Patience is key. You aren’t going to end up with a spotless house while you put your feet up and read a magazine. (Don’t I wish!) Learning cleaning tips and techniques can take a while.
I recently heard about one mom who started a Pinterest board with her daughter where they share household tips and advice from around the Internet. She said she knew it was a success when her daughter pinned some tips on keeping the shower door spotless. Suddenly she realized she had an enthusiastic helper because she had allowed her daughter to take ownership and feel like she was part of the process.
A young child may be much more excited about cute pictures, cartoons, and images than words on a chore chart. An older child may have more complicated assignments that need an explanation. Find what works best for your children. A quick search on Pinterest will reveal more ideas than you know what to do with!
To make it even easier for you, we have put together a few different printable chore chart options for you to use. Depending on the age of your kids, one of the following ideas might be the perfect way to motivate them:
Whatever chart you use, make sure that it makes sense to the people who are using it. And don’t make it too complicated! The simpler it is for everyone to use, the more likely you will keep it up!
If you love this resource, be sure to check out the printable version of these chore charts included in our digital library of helpful tools and resources for cleaning faster, taking control of your budget, organizing your schedule, and getting food on the table easier than ever before.
Charts need to be posted or stored where they’re easy to see and can be accessed by everyone (in case someone needs a little reminder). Before the days of stainless steel kitchens, that place was often the refrigerator door, but lots of other locations would work too, such as a bulletin board hung in the hallway, kitchen, or even right in your child’s bedroom. Or, if hanging is not an option at all, the popsicle stick chore option makes a great alternative and takes only a few inches of shelf space!
Having a Family Command Center, either in the office or in your kitchen can be a great way to make things accessible (and keep them pretty). If you choose to review the charts daily (my recommendation), you’ll want to set aside a special time—maybe right after dinner or before teeth brushing and prayers at night—to review the accomplishments of the day. It doesn’t need to be a big production, but simple love, praise and acknowledgment can be enough to keep the ball rolling.
Some families see chores simply as a part of belonging to the family. As part of the family, children are expected to chip in, help out, and do things around the house. Other parents see a reward system as a powerful tool to motivate kids and teach lessons about earning. Whatever your view, you can still make chore charts work, and in fact, you may find that it’s a valuable tool that you NEED.
Even if you choose not to reward your children with money, they may need to complete tasks around the house to earn privileges, such as a playdate, a movie, device time, or another reward. Putting up a visual reminder of the end goal can be helpful. Just like chore charts offer a visual way to track the completed tasks, putting the reward right on the chart can serve as a reminder and an incentive
Some parents post dollar amounts right on the chore chart or attach envelopes to move money whenever a task is done. One mom I know actually hides her child’s reward on Saturday mornings in the room that the child is assigned to dust. Let me tell you—her house can pass a white glove test when she’s done!
Get creative. Even teens (who are “too cool” to be motivated by a sticker on a chore chart) will be very motivated when they can see a clear incentive or end goal. Having to complete your chore list before going out can work wonders!
Finally, don’t be afraid to mix it up as you go. If you feel that your chore chart is getting boring or your kids are growing out of it, try something new! Remember, your objectives are not only to get your kids enthusiastic about helping around the house, but to understand that money comes from work, and to find happiness and satisfaction in a job well done!
To summarize, here are some of the best ways to create a chore chart for your children that WORKS!
Place Chore Charts in a Visible Location
Decide on an Incentive
Do your kids do chores? How do you keep them motivated?
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This is great. Got some good ideas, validation and other information —
Thank you!
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I've just recently become a stepmother to kids who have not really had any chores/responsibilities in the past ten years. Their dad did/does everything for them, and I think they are lacking important behaviors and skills that they'll need later in life.
Any ideas for me... trying to get two teens (17 & 15) and an 11 year old to go from zero chores/responsibility to having chores?
HI Lou,
That is a tall order. I would start small and maybe use the chore chart that posts the dollar amounts right on the chore chart or attach envelopes to move money whenever a task is done. That might be more incentive for older kids. Good luck. :)
I HAVE THREE TEENAGERS THAT AGES 12,12,13
THREE YOUNGER ONES 5,6,7
PLEASE HELP ME WITH A USEFUL CHORE CHART RIGHT NOW I JUST TELL THEM AND ITS UGH
Thanks for the resources it is super helpful!!
I love the variety of chore charts you provided! I know exactly what will work best for my kids!
thanks a lot! this is a great help to me and my family!
ManageKids.com is free kids activity/Chore management website helping kids to organise their activities, motivate them to do their chores for award points or award money.
- Parents schedule chores/activities, award points/money for kids
- Advanced scheduling option like recurring monthly, one time, weekly etc.
- Kids complete chores and get their points or cash value
- Detail reporting and monitiroing
- It is completely free to use.
Giva a try...
Several years ago we let a niece and nephew move into our house . They were teenagers at the time and we had two small kids of Our Own. It was really hard to figure out how to maintain the house and plan and cook meals . We knew that the kids needed to do chores and it was a real hassle to keep up with the meals with all of the people in our house now especially teenagers . We started using a product out now at cardplanner.com that allows you to plan meals and the kids chores all in one.
Assigning chores to the children through the Image representation of chore charts seems to be more appealing for the kids to do their own chores. Assign more interesting chores to the kids through Track Chores