Do you want to know the honest truth? I don’t really like to clean.
And unless you are like my sister, the only person I have ever met who seems to have been born with an unnatural love of vacuuming, chances are that you don’t really like to clean either. Honestly there are about a million other things I would rather do than clean my house, and not one of them involve a toilet brush or a mop.
But here’s the thing: I love living in a clean house.
While cleaning has not always come naturally to me, I have found that my love of living in a home that is neat and tidy far outweighs my distaste for scrubbing toilets and vacuuming the floors. In fact, I once wrote a whole post about all the reasons I keep my house clean, which included everything from the fact that it just looks better to the reality that I can find the things I need, it saves money, and that I simply get more done when my house is clean. That post has generated a lot of response over the past couple of years, including many requests for a step-by-step guide to keeping your house clean.
A few years ago I wrote my Beginner’s Guide to Coupons as helpful, baby-steps reference to learning how to save big on groceries by coupons. I then followed that with a Beginner’s Guide to Savings, which is a step-by-step guide to learning how to budget and save. This year, I thought it might be fun to add some new Beginner’s Guides to the mix, starting with this, the Beginner’s Guide to Cleaning.
If you already keep a neat and tidy house, most of what I include in this very basic how-to guide will probably be review for you. In that case, I would love to have you add your own tips and advice to the comment section at the end of each post! On the other hand, if cleaning is a struggle for you, then this guide might feel a little overwhelming at times. Try to take it slow and give yourself grace. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and a lifetime of untidy habits won’t be broken overnight.
But I promise you can do it!
So this week let’s just start with the basics—the why and the when of cleaning. Next week we can worry about the what, and then, for the rest of the series we will focus on the how and the where. Sound good? Alrighty then, let’s get started!
First, the why. What is the point of neat and tidy house? Why do we even bother, when it is all just going to get messed up anyway? Why do we bother making our bed when we are just going to sleep in it again 12 hours later? Is it really worth stressing over?
Honestly, that answer truly depends on you.
My reasons for keeping a clean and tidy house will not be the same as yours, nor should they be, just because I am calmer, happier, and more productive when my house is clean doesn’t necessarily mean that you will be. That said, if you truly want to be successful in your quest for a clean house, you must first figure out why it even matters to you.
Because let’s face the facts. If a messy house really, truly didn’t bother you at all, you probably wouldn’t have taken the time to click an article called “The Beginner’s Guide to Cleaning.” Right?
Or, maybe a messy house doesn’t necessarily bother you but it does bother your spouse, in which case, making peace in your marriage and finding a way to compromise is what matters most to you. Maybe you are just sick of never being able to find things, or you are tired of being too embarrassed of the mess to invite people over.
Whatever your reason for wanting a clean house, name it. Take the time to write it down on a piece of paper that you tape to the refrigerator or bathroom mirror, or get a big chalkboard for your living room and write it on there. Remembering YOUR “why” every single day will help motivate you to create new habits.
Once have convinced yourself why this matters to you, it is also time to start working on creating a cleaning schedule that works for you. I promise it is much easier than it sounds!
Part One Assignment
And that’s all there is to do this week! Remember, this is the Beginner’s Guide to Cleaning, which means we will be taking this process one baby step at a time.
Just to review, here is your first assignment:
- Read Why I Make My Bed: 10 Reasons I Keep My House Clean, then spend some time thinking about the reasons having a clean house matters to YOU. Write down your most important reason for wanting a clean house.
- Create your own cleaning schedule using the instructions found here. If you have no idea what kind of cleaning schedule will work for you, just guess for now. You can always change it later.
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The LWSL Beginner’s Guide to Cleaning:
Part 1: Getting Started Part 2: Cleaning Supply 101 Part 3: How to Clean Your Living Space Part 4: How to Clean Your Kitchen Part 5: How to Clean Your Bathroom Part 6: How to Clean Your Bedroom Part 7: Laundry 101 Part 8: Home Maintenance & Seasonal CleaningTAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR HOME LIFE
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Love the pictures. Your house is so uncluttered! I love having a nice clean house, especially if it shows off something that I’ve made or redone. We put hardwood floors in the house — and what a difference it makes! Now, I get out the broom every day because I want my nice floors looking great every day.
Step one: move into a right-sized abode. If you have more house than you use you will be cleaning space you don’t use. Why do that?
Step two: reduce clutter. The less stuff you have to clean, the less time/effort it will take to keep things clean.
Step three: Do step one from this blog post. 🙂
I totally agree with step two! Keeping my house clutter-free helps ALOT!!!
One way I keep things de-cluttered is to have a stylish 3 drawer dresser in my living room that I put each of my 3 kids’ things in that I find throughout the house. Obviously, I prefer the kids put away all of their own things but this is for the times they don’t. This way they are responsible for putting away their own things (or know where to find them) and keeps my house looking tidy.
I’m excited! I always want a clean house but I never seen to be able to keep it clean or even to get the entire house to be clean at the same time 🙂
I read another post of yours that talked about speed cleaning in the morning for 45 minutes. That helped me so much, just being reminded to wake up and get to work. I used to speed clean right before my husband got home, but when my baby grew into a toddler, that seemed impossible. Now I clean what I can right away and I get the momentum I need for the remainder of the day. My husband loves coming home to dishes done and dinner cooking rather than a frazzled wife! Thank you!
YAY!!! I am so excited for this series!! My mom was a terrible housekeeper and I feel like I never learned how to clean properly. I don’t want my kids to grow up in the craziness that I grew up with! Can’t wait to get it all figured out!
Ha, my mom always did everything for us and never taught us to do anything for ourselves so I kind of have the opposite experience! I guess I thought houses magically cleaned themselves. My bed was made for me every single day until I went to college and rarely gets made since then. The problem is that since I grew up in a clean house, I WANT one I just was never taught the tools to accomplish it. Now that I am adult, I realize I must be held responsible, but it is truly so hard for me to be disciplined in this area. I am very excited for this series as well!
Your mom probably thought she was helping you.
I griped a lot about my parents making me do things, but I knew hopw to cook, clean, sew and fix things around the house which savced me tons of money over the years.